Episode 9.
- You keep sneezing, go inside. - When will you finish this all.
If your father wasn't here,
I wanted to eat noodles.
They didn't ask us to join their bbq.
If we all eat, it's a lot of work.
I can't ask her to do all that.
You have nothing to lose.
That's not what I meant.
I knew she was something when they started dating.
When they came to say hello, she bought a small cake.
After that,
she's only brought a few rice cakes and grains.
3 socks, 2 roasted nuts.
I can't forget it.
Your father said that she wouldn't spend any money.
He liked it then.
But she needs to loosen up.
There is a difference between being frugal and over doing it.
I wondered if she would crate a rift between the brothers.
Until this day there hasn't been a problem.
Yoo-jung,
has a lot of of worries.
Yes.
It's better than her spending money thoughtlessly.
Of course.
What are you doing?
Do you still need time to finish?
We just started.
I'm bored.
- Go and walk. - I will do that later.
The peppers are really ripe this season.
I can tell,
that the farmer put great care into his peppers.
There is nothing better than a good farmer.
Vegetables and fruits are grown with great care.
You can tell by the state of the fruit.
How hard they worked.
I don't want to welcome you, but you're so cute.
Who is it?
It's me dad.
She's opening her eyes.
Dad is here.
Look at me.
She doesn't know how.
You're not her father, she's saying not to say that.
I'm officially her dad.
Every time you call yourself dad, my heart races.
It's really funny.
After I decided to become a dad, I feel like one.
After seeing your sister pregnant, I was a grandpa.
- Is she upstairs? - No.
Mom.
Go see what she wants.
Mom wash my back.
- Mom isn't here. - Where is she?
I don't know.
Dad, where's mom?
She's out picking peppers.
I asked her to wash my back.
Do you want me to do it?
Why isn't she keeping her promise?
Go tell mom to come inside.
Okay.
So-young do you want me to do it?
- How annoying. - Mom.
What?
- So-young wants her back washed. - Okay.
I'm coming.
- What do you want for lunch? - Bean curd soup.
Okay.
What is a married couple?
We are one, body and soul.
You need to look at me with understanding, not get annoyed by what I say.
- My leg was hurting. - No you hit me because I was annoying.
That was your way to shut me up.
There is nothing left for you except for me.
When was the last time,
you didn't get annoyed with me?
We married out of love.
All that is left is our friendship.
I know that you stopped loving me.
I know it all.
My dad died when I was 5, and my mother worked all day.
I was always by myself, just playing around.
I would just eat whatever was in the kitchen.
I grew up lonely.
My complaint is,
you're mine for as long as I live.
Why are you laughing?
You're 80 years old,
and you said that.
Aren't you going to work out?
I want to rest.
Do you have plans?
No I just want to rest.
I want to sleep.
It's been a month.
- What? - Since you've had a date.
It's only been that long?
Are you sick?
You've always had girls.
Are you becoming a priest?
I'm old now.
Coffee?
Yea.
What if you have an illness because it's been so long?
Stop messing around.
No I want thai food.
No I want Chinese.
- Eat Thai food. - No I want Chinese.
- Mom. - Is she working out?
She didn't say anything.
Mom.
Sleeping?
I waiting for death.
You have pack on your face.
Your friend will be upset with you.
Don't mess with me today.
I want to be lazy.
We're going out since you're not cooking.
Where?
Going to lunch, then a movie.
- Eat dinner before you come. - Do you want some pastries?
Buy me some candy.
Okay.
Want to come?
So you can treat me like an Alzheimer elder?
- Forget it. - I'm not dead.
I want some thai noodles, I want some chinese shrimp.
- I really want it. - Okay eat what you want.
Hello.
- You're here. - Yes.
- Going somewhere? - Lunch then dinner.
We brought meat.
- We all wanted to have lunch. - Really?
No.
We have other plans.
I'll tell uncle to come.
Okay.
Lets go.
I'm here.
Hello.
- Is it fun? - Yes.
You work and have to come visit your in laws during the weekend.
Yes.
It would be better if we lived farther away.
Yes.
In laws equals being tired.
- Lets go. - Okay.
- See you later. - Bye.
What a baby.
Mom.
I'm coming.
Was there traffic?
Was it okay?
- It wasn't that bad. - Only a little bit of traffic.
- Did you eat breakfast? - Yes.
What did you eat?
2 bananas, 2 kiwis and one big glass of milk.
- Dad we're here. - He's not here.
Did he go somewhere?
He's probably at your uncle's.
You didn't make up?
There is nothing to make up about, he is so weird.
He doesn't eat my food and cooks himself steak and ramen.
He's always upset.
You talk to him.
I can't do anything.
His phone is off.
Ask your uncle.
It's me.
I just came.
We came.
I told her to just bring it.
This is too sweet.
Let me talk to my dad.
He's not there?
Mom said he would be there.
Did he say that?
He must have other business.
He probably went to the sauna.
I think so.
No I'm fine.
I can't have any meat.
If your aunt knows she'll be upset.
Okay then.
We will start at 12.
Okay.
Bye.
Dad isn't there.
He'll come when it's dinner time.
Did he go to the sauna?
Ask your other uncle.
He went out already.
What's happening.
Sung-gi wants to eat at home.
He just wants to eat at home.
Help her.
- I'll do it after lunch. - Okay.
It's restaurant style food.
It's not that.
You need to go, if no one goes it's rude.
Grandparents dont eat meat.
I can't have meat.
Your mom needs to make lunch.
We have reasons, but you guys don't.
So-young doesnt want to go.
You two go and eat.
It's rude when they prepared it and no one comes.
It's not Dae-gi, or uncle.
Aunt is...
Don't say that.
- What's wrong with her? - Nothing.
- Don't say that. - Okay.
Fool.
This is more work than expected.
The weather is really nice.
Did you take out the blood.
I did it for 2 hours.
How much sugar did you use?
It's not its fruit oil.
It's too sweet.
Fruit oil is more healthier than olive oil.
It has lower calories.
You just use syrup, try it.
Girls really live well these days.
- You give him banana for breakfast. - You may think that.
And grandma will think that of you.
These days wives don't treat their husbands like that.
Why do you talk back to me.
- I wasn't. - That's what you were doing.
Have a daughter in law one day.
See if you like a daughter in law who feeds your son a banana for breakfast.
I'm going to give my kids cereal.
I wont have a problem.
Do you really need to say that?
Can't you just say ok?
- You keep nagging. - What?
When did I?
Did I sit you down and talk to you about it?
That's how I see it.
That's your problem.
I have given up on you.
Don't worry about what we eat, it will just upset you.
You'll do it your way?
After being married, it's all about what Dae-gi ate.
I want to not care, but I get upset thinking about it.
- Ok. - Think that you're me.
Okay.
Want me to stop?
Yes.
Is the new smell out of your apartment?
Not yet.
If we close the windows, the smell is strong.
Burn some candles.
Okay.
- Don't cause a fire. - Okay.
Dad turn on your phone.
I want to talk to you.
Do you know what day it is?
Today we come and visit.
Dae-gi.
It's been a while.
Is it fun?
Yea.
WE just came.
My dad couldn't come.
I know.
We dated so long it doesnt feel different that we're married.
Its like we've already lived.
Your wife will be upset.
Are you?
Nope.
We dont spend money on dates.
We just do half of that now.
Even movies,
we used to watch them all.
Now we only go a couple times.
We just watch it on tv.
Its movies we watched already.
Aunt come eat.
- Go and grill. - Okay.
We can eat later.
Eating and grilling are 2 other things.
It's hectic changing places.
Just change the grill.
Okay.
Mom I want more rice.
- Me too. - And me.
- Lets go in. - Okay.
- You should let your mom eat. - She won't budge.
My mom too.
What's the best thing about getting married?
Our love life.
We don't need to worry.
Or use protection.
She was really picky.
Sometimes I didn't even want to.
This isn't for a child's ears.
I graduated elementary long time ago.
It feels empty without my dad.
Maybe he needed to go to Seoul.
He didn't tell my mom.
Why is his phone off?
He knows were coming.
He must have forgotten.
The meat smells so good.
It was this house.
Come here.
- Come and eat. - No I'm fine.
I can't eat meat today.
Why?
My friend passed away today.
I need to respect her.
I interrupted your eating.
Sit down, I'm going to walk.
- Bye. - Bye.
I forgot.
Me too.
They didn't invite me.
I'm just nice because of my daughter.
They aren't starving.
I don't care if I don't eat meat.
Hello, it's been a while.
- Who are you? - I live over there.
- What? - Grandpa wants to see her.
- Put her here. - Okay.
- Did you drink? - No.
Why are you limping?
- I'll eat that. - No I'll bring new ones.
I won't die.
When will you become a person?
Its been so long since I've had meat.
You can't remember it?
Once in a while is ok.
Doctors say not to be so picky.
I agree.
- Forget it. - Make grandma stop holding Yoo-jin.
She almost dropped her.
I almost fainted.
She can barely walk.
She didn't drop her.
- How can I say that? - Want me to?
I will talk to her nicely.
- And grandpa touches her without washing his hands. - Don't over react to everything
- Mom. - They raised 3 healthy boys.
- Stop. - But mom.
Yoo-jin wants milk.
- It's not time. - I know best.
She wants her milk.
Make it.
I'll go.
- The mail must have come. - Yes.
- Who is it? - Chang-ho.
Chang-ho?
Oh come in.
Hello.
Hello Grandpa.
I work with Sung-gi.
I know.
- Hello. - Hello grandma.
It's been a long time.
I'm sorry.
It was spring the last time you came.
Yes it was in April.
Come sit here.
- Call him. - Okay.
- He went to eat lunch. - I see.
This is oysters fresh.
- Again. - I came as soon as I got it.
They are still alive.
- You always bring things. - It's no problem.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Did you eat? - I already ate.
- Tea. - Anything.
Thank you.
I don't know if it's domestic or not.
We don't know either.
Sit down.
- My great grand daughter. - I see.
Joong-gi made her on accident.
- Is the tea ready? - I'm coming.
Hello.
- Its been a while. - Yes.
Have some.
- Should I feed her? - No she's fine.
Let her be comfortable.
Her neck is going back.
She keeps moving around.
- Her neck will go back. - Your aunt is worrying.
She is worrying about you.
Drink tea outside, he's coming soon.
Your daughter must have grown.
She's 5 now.
Want to see a picture.
She's cute.
It's last months.
I havent seen her in a while.
She hasn't come yet?
Yes.
You must miss her.
She must like taking pictures.
She's a flirt.
My moms like that.
Who's that actress I like?
Jang Ji.
You're like her.
I was prettier than her when I was 30.
You're more prettier than her.
- Take your sunglasses off. - No my age will show.
Ok then don't take it off.
Lets drink coffee.
Come drink coffee.
Dad didn't bring his phone.
It's off.
What a joke.
He always checks his stock every 5 minutes.
Why did he leave?
Come.
Was there anything else?
No nothing.
He complains about side dishes.
He does every day.
He eats raw eggs instead of food.
There was nothing different.
He was really mad.
He always does that.
He wasn't like that.
Becuase he retired when he can still work.
But it's not just him.
He can't control himself.
He must be really upset.
He's educated.
He should rationally deal with it.
He annoys everyone, and bothers me.
It's the worst.
I'm so disappointed.
I didn't know that he would change like that.
He needs your support.
- I am trying. - He worked really hard.
I know.
I'm going to take a nap.
Okay.
I'm going to wash up.
I smell like meat.
What will you do?
I'm going to read, or watch some tv.
Read he is napping.
Lets be quiet.
Okay.
They want me to go home.
- You got fired? - No that's not it.
I'm older so I need to retire.
So they didn't promote you and fried you.
Who got promoted?
Tell me what happened?
What did I say? You need to play office politics.
You never listen to me.
I came to see the kid.
Come in, I'll make dinner.
This is too much.
I work hard and came early to see my kid.
You don't even welcome me.
Good job, I bought some beers.
Honey, the family worked really hard.
I'm really thankful.
You worked so hard, retire comfortably now.
You could have said that.
That's what I wanted to hear.
Not that we need to cut our expenses.
Ok I know.
- Why do I have to say it. - Forget it.
You just give me beers and tell me we need to cut expenses.
You really like throwing a tantrum.
Why are you changing that, it's expensive.
Why do you need a smart phone, that's expensive.
Working out is $200 that is to much money.
Why are you meeting your friends, you will use money.
Don't buy books! Go to the library.
Why are you getting new sneakers? Wear them for another 5 years.
Are you worried?
No not really.
I was just tired.
Yea we work a lot.
We need to have strength.
I have some roots give it to So-young.
It's ok.
I need to get rid of it.
I don't like the smell.
I can't even touch it.
I feel bad throwing it away.
- Before my mom comes. - No it's okay.
Bye.
Thank you, you always bring things for us.
It's no problem, that's what friends do.
That's our interest for our friendship.
- I'll repay you. - Good to hear.
- Go in. - Okay.
I have to go.
- Why are you taking the bike? - I want to hurry back and eat.
Today I will eat a lot.
- Mother. - Yes.
Father.
Have some.
I already ate.
It's steamed.
Eat it fresh.
Hurry.
Okay.
- I said not to talk when I do this. - Eat this first.
You don't want any?
Don't worry.
How can you say that?
He's not the same dad.
He picked this day so that I would look like the bad guy.
How do you not know when he left?
Did he leave yesterday or today?
We live separate lives.
He just stays in his room.
Like a child.
What does he always do?
He just has free time.
He watches movies.
There's baseball.
Or he can just be sitting on a bus.
Or he might just be going somewhere.
- Alone? - I don't know.
He might be with his friends.
He didn't bring his phone.
He forgot it.
Why would he forget it?
You can't forget that.
That's what you take first.
He must want to be alone.
Come inside.
It's already late.
- Come here. - Wait.
Just a minute.
What?
Did Hwi-myung say anything to you?
No nothing.
Except for the beggar saying.
Why?
- Did something happen? - He is gone.
What?
He didn't bring his phone.
When? How?
Nothing happened in particular.
They don't know when.
They thought he was at my house.
- He didn't come. - I said he is gone.
Why would he...
Where did he go?
He ran away?
I don't think so.
He still isn't home.
It's been on my mind all day.
I wanted to know if you knew.
I don't know anything.
Mom Hwi-myung ran away!
What?
They don't know when he left and he left his phone.
Did he write a letter?
No not that.
He didn't run away then.
He didn't tell anyone, and hasn't come home yet.
Yoo-jung probably hurt his pride.
He is just out wandering.
Where?
He probably wants to meet his first love.
- They dated since college. - He could have dated.
The plan with the money,
it might have hurt his pride.
It wasnt just me.
It was your idea.
- Hwi-jae. - You hurt his pride.
- You ruined his pride. - Don't keep saying you.
You were the one that said it was a good idea.
That's not the issue, where did he go?
After he said that,
I felt he was really upset.
I just did it out of the sincerity of my heart.
- You said that.. - That isn't important!
- You want me to take the blame. - That's not what I'm saying.
Why did he leave, and I thought about the plan we did yesterday.
The one to blame is Yoo-jung.
- Aren't you cold? - Yea that's why I was shaking.
You found your phone?
That guy you were marrying?
No as pc room near my friend's work.
I was hear playing.
Thank you so much.
I looked around every where.
A student gave it to him, and he forgot about it.
I tried one last time, and it worked.
Ok congratulations.
I couldn't work out today.
I'm a servant.
At home I am.
Already?
Look at these clothes.
Okay.
My brother wants his clothes cleaned.
He does it himself, he's obsessed with clothes.
He uses his pay on clothes.
It's funny.
- That's it. - Is he a cheater?
Don't call me that.
Do you have a girlfriend?
No just a girl at my cafe.
She keeps calling me.
She must like you.
My brother came.
He's not a teenager.
- He wouldn't do that. - Right?
He's just getting some air.
I felt bad that he didn't have dinner.
Don't worry.
He will come in.
He didn't write a letter.
- He can just leave? - So what if he does?
He never does this.
So?
It's been a year since he retired, he can do this.
It's not serious.
Becuase he's not your brother.
If you talked to Yoo-jung.
- You can talk to her. - So it's my fault?
I'm not blaming anyone.
It's not all her fault, your brother is a very difficult man too.
- You don't blame your brother. - When did I?
You do that.
Yes.
Mom Yoo-jin.
If grandparents want to see her tell them to come into the room.
- What? - I can't take it.
There is so much dust,
how do we know, we can't see.
- She will inhale all that. - Are you stupid?
- Your the only mom? - Mom.
Stop over reacting, and just keep quiet.
What if grandma catches on.
- Say it's your idea. - Hey.
I raised you 3 just fine.
- Then just get a nanny. - Times are different.
Is she a premature sick baby?
- Mom. - You're a fool.
- Stop over reacting. - It's okay.
You can't let your kids grow germ free.
That is how they develop immunity.
The air here is clean and as no pollution.
When will you go?
Dad is uncomfortable.
Dad are you?
No I'm ok.
I miss being next to your mom.
Your mother will find out.
- Yea I'm worried. - I'll take Yoo-jin and go.
Have you gone crazy?
It isn't that.
It's not that right?
What?
- If he goes to a mountain.. - What are you saying?
- No not that.. - Don't say that.
Ok it's not.
You're thinking that.
Why are you yelling?
He's not that happy anyways.
He always fights and has no hobbies.
Don't say things like that.
I feel like a bad spirit is near our house.
I feel that way too.
- I can hear ravens crow. - Those are just Japanese superstitions!
Where are you going?
- My friend liked that son. - I see.
- What? - I wanted to drink.
You will get drunk.
Your sister in law is the problem.
She doesn't know men.
Men are all the same.
Like 4th graders.
You just need to see them and care for them and love them.
Stop, Sae-rom doesn't like it.
If she really knows men,
she wouldn't live that way.
- She.. - I'll drink it.
- I don't care. - Stop drinking.
- Today is a special day. - I don't care.
I hate hearing you sing until you get sober.
You're so mean to me.
Don't worry.
Nothing will happen.
Still...
I feel sad thinking about him.
It hurts me.
You said you would stop being so kind.
You're doing it again.
Right I am.
It's not as serious as you are thinking.
I need to stop thinking that.
Forget it.
He needs to deal with his own wife.
I know.
- He's still not here. - Okay.
Call me when he comes home.
No it's okay.
Ok.
I don't know what's wrong with me.
I keep feeling sad.
I try not to.
I keep slumping, I can't help it.
I can't sleep, I can't eat.
I don't want to see my wife.
I don't want to hear her.
I can't help it.
What's wrong with me?
- Yes. - I'm going up.
Come in.
She went up.
Did you yell?
No.
- You shouldn't have said anything. - What?
She needs to think.
You know,
Hwi-myung,
I think he just went to breathe.
He said that,
he doesnt even like seeing or hearing her.
He did?
Yea.
It's the same for her.
They both feel that way.
My brother is the one that left.
She was eating bbq.
Think of it fairly.
What?
He needs to act his age.
- He's selfish. - He's depressed.
That isn't normal.
He keeps falling down.
He keeps slumping.
I'm not over reacting.
Stop saying things like that.
Okay.
You always say things on a woman's view.
It's annoying.
I'm your husband.
Then you need to be on my side.
Okay, I'm sorry.
- Stop laughing. - You're funny.
I'm leaving.
I'm sorry please stay.
She wants you to come in.
She went to bed.
It's cold.
Yes?
You didn't sleep well?
Will I die?
You can't breathe.
I feel like I'm dying.
Is this blood normal.
The nose bleed will stop soon.
It's hard to breathe.
- I'm going crazy. - The pain will pass.
Check her stats.
Your neck isn't puffing.
Okay.
Don't sit up suddenly.
Your mother went home?
She went to the sauna.
Don't use the restroom alone.
Your mom,
or our nurses.
Okay.
What?
Dad said he would call.
He said that but I was worried.
He is really worried.
I called him yesterday, but he said he would call me.
I keep thinking bad things.
He's been sad.
He needs to come in.
Bye.
Ahn Sung-gi.
Yes?
Lets all have dinner, french food.
- I can't. - What?
I need to go home.
Is your grandpa sick?
- No. - Grandma.
My uncle ran away.
So my dad is worried.
- So what will you do? - Be with my dad.
He has no kids?
- He does. - Then why do you care?
My family is like that.
- Your uncle is still gone. - Yes.
She wants to treat us to dinner.
I can't today.
It's my aunts birthday.
You have to go?
Yes we do.
Just be 2 hours late.
If you don't go I will commit suicide.
What's with her?
- Lets let her die. - Hey.
Virgin ghost will come.
Wait I guess not a virgin in her case.
Should I ask her?
Are you crazy?
- What did the police say. - Not much.
They dont care about adult run aways.
They say he will come.
It happens a lot.
Missing cases happen.
But not for dad.
- There are no card transactions? - No.
Hyo-joo isn't coming?
She needs to work.
- You think she can drive 4 hours? - So she needs to do it.
How can it just be easy?
Her husband is here.
- She wants to be comfortable. - What will she do here?
What?
She's family.
You don't treat her like family.
I told her not to come.
- This is embarrassing. - What?
Is this normal?
- Your dad is.. - Why are you saying this?
- You made him leave. - It's his personality.
Compromise with him.
- Because of ribs. - Damn ribs.
- You don't know how hard he is. - He worked so hard.
Dad is having his hardest time.
You think this isn't hard on me?
Well..
He has money I don't know about.
- He has to use his card. - What if theres an accident.
Accident?
Nothing.
Forget it.
Sons are for their dads.
Just listen to him, you can't change that.
I feel so upset.
He's never seen his dad act that way.
- He says its my fault. - Look through his contacts.
Call his friends.
His cell phone.
- His numbers are there. - That's true.
We will do it.
I will tell Dae-gi to.
Okay.
Do you want tea?
No I'm fine.
People say he worked so hard, but I did to.
I've never rested.
- No one thinks that. - To this day,
I've never even shopped.
This wasn't for me.
I know.
When were older,
we need to be safe.
I know.
I,
I had a dream,
when were 70,
we just grow old together.
We go outside,
and read our books.
Talk about movies.
Listen to music, go on walks.
Take naps.
Go grocery shopping.
I never imagined this.
He keeps changing.
I know.
I wonder what will happen to me when I get old.
I'm scared for that.
Just think of it as life.
Things will get better.
You need to be more easy going.
Think that he's a patient.
Let him do what he wants.
Take his side sometimes.
That will be fine.
You know,
I can't really do that.
Just keep it in mind.
Stop.
Don't cry.
- You've been married 30 years. - Yoo-jung.
- You're here. - My mom made porridge.
You won't want to eat so she made this.
I like this too.
Tell her thank you.
No problem.
- Did something happen? - No I was leaving.
- You're staying? - Yes.
Ok.
Does Hwi-myung have a first love?
Did he?
- Why? - My mom says,
He went to find his first love.
Men who leave because of their wives,
miss their love.
Who says that?
- Did he say it? - Lets go, hurry.
Are you really clueless?
- No it might be true. - Shut up.
You're putting gas on the flames.
- Ji-ae. - Be quiet.
You really are something.
Lets go.
- How are you? - Not well.
Yes.
- Its hard going to work from here. - She didn't come yesterday.
I was tired.
Don't say that.
You're still young.
Yes.
- Bye. - Bye.
- I'm going. - Bye.
Life sucks.
Dae-gi I'm sorry.
What a bad life!
I'm so upset.
- This is unacceptable. - It doesn't matter that I'm gone?
- Want me to go? - This isn't normal.
- What if they see you. - You're famous.
- What do you know about me? - I want to date you.
Dad is here.